Jesus explained that following him could be very hard. His disciples needed to love him more than they loved anyone else. They must love him even more than they loved their families.
This meant that their relationship with Jesus was more important than any other relationship. Many people opposed Jesus. If the disciples remained faithful to him, they would be opposed and treated badly too.
Some of their family members would turn against them because of their faith in Jesus. People might also harm the disciples’ bodies. But the real danger was if they stopped following Jesus. Then they would lose life together with him in God’s kingdom. This would be worse than losing their families or their safety.
Jesus reminded them how deeply God cared for them and was protecting their souls. Finding life with Jesus is worth giving up everything.